Adil & Mariam
(20 May 2009)
I was averse to putting my profile online, but it was my aunt who insisted that I make myself available in the most fashionable way, i.e. on the web. So once I came back from my cousin’s wedding, I got down to uploading myself in Shaadi.com as suggested.
Once I take to something, I get down to putting the most minute details and thus when I was done, my page gave the visitor a complete picture of my family background. This attracted the attention of “M’s” mother who was out looking for a Groom for “M”.
One would imagine this to be just another regular story, but it so happened that her family knew my family from both the sides. “M’s” father was from Hyderabad & so was my mother and our grandmothers were childhood friends it turned out, while “M’s” mother was distantly related to a member from papa’s family. My parents lived in Sundargarh and her parents in Burnpore and both of us were working in Hyderabad.
Pressure built on us and we had our first meeting at my relatives place in mid October (2008); just a normal casual talk. Then we went back to our normal lives till my mother’s aunt convinced me to make contact again. This time we met outside and I made it clear to “M” that I was not ready to get into any commitments at least not before the beginning of next year & that I would be fine meeting as friends if it was alright with her. “M” readily agreed and there began our dating which was casual. I used to call her at short notice and she would earnestly respond, always. I had long made up my mind that Mariam was the one for me and was planning a nice surprise for her. The day was 15 December 2008 and it was Mariam’s Birthday.
We met in the evening at a new joint as always and while we were celebrating her life, I handed “M” a paper cut-out that read, “I am ready, are you?”. Mariam didn’t expect and was all red; she too was ready but I stopped her from making a decision on that instant and suggested that she take some time and come back with an answer. I got her yes the next day in a similar fashion, she came back with a paper cut-out that read, “Yes, I am”.
There began our courtship which got a social approval at our engagement on the 15th of February 2009, which will culminate into our taking oath on the 31st of May 2009.
Wedding DATE :
31st May, 2009 Adil & Mariam
Shaadi.com Team congratulates Adil & Mariam. We wish you both a happy future.
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