I think nothing is meaningful to say something about ourselves, until the other person figure it out themselves. When we say, we build suspicion, we loose the trust, but when someone discover the beauty inside of you they have no choice but trust, and that's the key for a relationship. So why saying, when no gaining? Therefore, my theory is Don't say, just be yourself, and I think true love has to come itself, its not worthy to try too hard for true love. I think finding the one, it should just be an option; when something is real, and meant to happen it will happen; without needing our too much effort.