I am a fun loving person and try to not to be overly optimistic about things. I like to see things in positive perspective. I take my time to talk to people. I start as a silent observer and when I get to know someone I can be talkative. But I make sure I am not boring anyone or getting into his/her personal space. I like my space and respect other person¡¦s space. I take things as they come along. I believe that there is no point about worrying or mulling over a problem and spoil the rest of your time. A solution should be found for the problem and move ahead. I also believe that it is very important for every individual to learn to say no and for everyone to learn to accept no in a mature way. By failing to no one can put oneself and the other in trouble. I like comedy shows and like to have good laugh. I do not like to watch highly emotional scenes because I am can get emotional and a drop of two of tears might roll down from my eyes. i like listening to music. Music, movies and reading take my mind off from the real world and helps me relax. During leisure time I prefer hanging out with friends. If there is nothing to do I end up browsing the net. I like to drive around the city. I like night life walking in streets lit with yellow lights. I like my day by waking up and getting ready for work. Have a sumptuous breakfast, work through the day, learn new things, gain more expertise. Evening after work freshen up and go out with friends and get to bed by eleven to get a good 6 -7 hrs sleep. One should sleep well to be in a good frame of mind during the day. I do not like to carry my work home unless it is badly needed to. My friends are fond of me and they think I am witty and good at playing with words. I have tried my hand at writing short stories. Right now I am having a writer¡¦s block ƒº.
I believe that in matrimony two individuals become one. It is like matter and anti-matter, with the difference being matter and anti-matter fuse and get destroyed while a man and woman in marriage fuse to become one person. So a married couple has to move ahead like a single person would. All that they do, say, think, act should be on the same wavelength. They have to thus complement each other in everyway. I am looking for that ¡§complementary-me¡¨ in this forum who would complete me and whom I will complete.

i belong to an open-minded, religious family of four including me. i have a younger brother who an MBA grad. my dad has been self-employed and mom is a housemaker.