Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Raheem. AsalaamuAlaikum. We are, Insha'Allah (IA),looking for a husband for our youngest daughter, Name Visible on Login. We are American citizens originally from Karachi, Pakistan. (Name Visible on Login's Dad is from Karachi and Mom, I am from Bombay, so in all actuality, we are an Indo-Pak team). We lived in Chicago most of our kid's lives and Name Visible on Login was born there. We moved to Doha,Qatar in 1995 to give our children more of an Islamic environment. However,other family members have been in Chicago for more than 20+ years. Since we both parents have now retired, we have returned to the U. S. at the end of May2011. Qatar has been a most wonderful home for us for the past 16+ years and esp. as Name Visible on Login grew up there. She studied in an elite British School, up to10th Grade, then took up American studies thru Penn-Foster, an American School on-line while simultaneously having worked for a reputed company as a Sr. HR Officer (upon our return to the U.S.,Name Visible on Login wrapped up her On-Line studies and is currently attending college to become an RN Nurse,IA). But if a suitable rishta comes through, iA,then we would be interested in discussing further with the prospective Groom/his Family. Having lived in the U. S.for so long prior to living in Qatar,Alhumdulillah, we have a good balance & understanding of East & West cultures and are all practicing Muslims. Name Visible on Login is a Hijabi and wears abaya (Islamic dress) or dresses modestly. Back in Doha, she used to be an active volunteer for charity work. MashAllah she, her older sister and their best friend conduct Islamic lectures for women every week. She loves discussing anything regarding Islam and always finds a way to give Dawah. She is very pretty, charismatic and a beautiful person on the inside and out MashAllah. She has a brilliant sense of humor but knows when to be serious and act accordingly. Name Visible on Login is only 23, but is mature for her age and understands her Deen, Alhumdilillah. She is extremely caring & compassionate with a generous heart She is a great listener & is very much a family person & respects elders and youngsters alike. IA just like she is a loving, supporting daughter and sister, she will be a wonderful wife and daughter in law too (more like a daughter). Oh - and last but not the least- she is the heart throb of any Family Dawats. You will see her pitching in the kitchen to running around everywhere- helping the old, playing with the toddlers or more like baby-sitting while the parents are eating.. to serving Aunts their desert.MashAllah shes everybodys favorite! JazakAllah Khair for looking at this profile. Name Visible on Login's thoughts... InshaAllah I prefer to perform Isthikhara once our proposal progresses and I would appreciate my potential partner to do the same. Maybe what I am looking for is hard to find these days, but I strongly believe with sabr and shukr, Allah will grant us what we look for, all we have to do is have trust in Allah's plans for us and continue making duaa. My life revolves around my parents. Until a person understands the true sacrifice and responsibility parents take for their children, no one will be able to appreciate them. My parents have given me the world without a single word of complaint and now, in their old age, it is my turn to do the same. So I would like a husband who will care about my parents as much as I will care about his InshaAllah. I am very family oriented and I feel I am ready to start my own. I'm looking for a righteous man, whom I can respect and who will, likewise, respect me. Someone mature and independent, who will not mooch off his parents, Rather someone who will take care of his parents and understand his responsibility towards the whole family. A trustworthy man who is caring, loving, generous and most importantly, honest. He has to have a wonderful sense of humor and know how to have Halal fun (grouches will not fit in in our family because we are a great fun loving Family). The most important quality I look for is Deen.Someone who follows the Quran and Sunnah (for we base our decisions, on any matters, first from an Islamic point of view and then take an action on it. Islam is a way of life and our daily routines should revolve around Islam not Islam revolve around our daily routines). I'm certainly not looking for a"modern Muslim" who considers everything more than obligatory as"extreme". Following the Sunnah in every aspect of life is as important as Fard. We aren't perfect and there are many things we learn everyday in our religion, so I would like a husband who is willing to learn and improve with me, whether that is attending seminars/workshops together, learning something online, supporting each other through our Islamic goals. He should care for the Ummah's well-being and continuously strive to help improve their situation in whatever way possible. I'm a very compassionate person, I try my best to help people as much as I can, hence the choice to become a Nurse :). We all have our weaknesses and to overcome our weakness is true strength in Imaan,there will be ups and downs that we will face together and get through if Allah Wills. He should understand the rights of a husband towards his wife (as I would understand my husbands rights). I want his family to treat me as their own as InshaAllah I will do the same. I want us to share our lives happily in this life and the hereafter InshaAllah. My parents and I don't care about his affluence level, all we care is that his income is Halal, the rest Allah is Ar-Razzaq. When a husband and wife share hardships together their love and respect grow. "Woman was made from the rib of man, she was not created from his head to rule over him, nor from his feet to be trampled upon, she was made from his side to be close to him, from beneath his arm to be protected by him, near his heart to be loved by him". And if he is kind to the unfortunate, the downtrodden, my respect would be profound for (when you give someone Charity, be thankful to them. You may be fixing their Dunya,but they are fixing your Akhirah),JazakAllah Khair for your patience and time..BUT I had to speak my heart and mind. May Allah Grant us all a righteous Spouse, Ameen.
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