This is the most difficult part. I would am more comfortable in wrting about what I'm looking for huh.. so that he has to be 1. lintellectual, which includes being career focused, 2. have some humor (open mindness), be adaptable in new situations/environments; have good family dynamics; and finally have a little spiritualism.

I understand and acknowledge there is never going to be one single person that is able to fulfill all the above check list. So I want to hear from other's that are able to come close enough.

There is nothing I feel appropriate to write here other than once a person spends time with me will know what values I have been bought up with.