Hi I have re rewritten this many times, so below is a miss mash of what I am looking for.
I guess I want someone who has that drive and passion to be together with that someone special. Like our parents who came here, and knew what was important,, and knew that they must have all the resources they need, e.g a good job , money, loyal trusting friends and family a good social life and to fit in and relax in a foreign country and support their partners with all the problems they had here, I am looking for someone with that same drive who wants to fight for these things and to be together comfortably and fight for what is important.
I have seen many couples that think they are in love but are anxious all the time and worried about cheating, and get jealous easily, and do not look like they can enjoy life, control each other too much etc.. that is not real love.
Looking for someone clever- does not play games- is not trapped in a web of emotional... more attachments. Has friends but wants me to her your closest friend. They are the type of person that doesn't have to worry about gossiping to her friends to get attention as your are content with me
I know I should not be on here- I am not looking for someone who has a partner and wants to use this site to find someone better, or if you want to meet someone from here to make your existing partner jealous to see how they react or are simply confused with your relationships. I am not speaking from experience just from foresight and intellect.
You should be single, educated, genuine and be able to make quick decisions about your own life and not put things on hold to learn about yourself.
I believe in true love and true friendships and real freedom and trust. If you are not capable of this do not contact me. I have seen many couples fight and treat each other like children, cheat, stalk and generally are too proud to communicate effectively. Like me you should also have the same outlook on what you want from your partner- no drama just trust and real reliability. Almost like how the Sikh people protected each other in times of war.. They sharpened their martial skills and intellect. That's what I offer and need, Someone above it all. Not looking for someone who wants a conventional relationship as shown in the media and TV, I am looking for something alot better than that. We are Sikhs, Sikh love is different
We bow to the sword and fight for justice and good. Its is important you know about religion, think it is cool, but not necessarily follow it.
many people as adults stop believing, I can never stop. I have worked in the city with bi gay and atheist people mainly Dr's full of ego and are incompetent. For me acknowledging god always comes first- I respect everyone and expect to be respected. Working in the city who you respect is a weapon, where you are not respected your talents must command their respect,
I wear a turban and have a beard and know my value. But I am not loud and proud, I can be very simple and prefer not to be tested.
I am not lovey dovey or overly controlling or critical but for us to work together we need to be on the same page.
I am not looking to go on many dates, be stringed along- I prefer 1 or 2 dates/meetings where we tell each other everything we need to know.
For me things are very simple, if we like each other and each other families and have the respect and are comfortable then we are a good match, I am not scared of commitment your dad or anything else, if you want a guy with these flaws, and you want some drama that is not me,
I am clear level headed intelligent and know anything is possible, hope you share this outlook on life
I am not looking or someone "Desi" so maybe you know this site is not for you but you want to give it a try.
I am very free spirited - Very very free- this is something you should know about- we should both be very very free
I am looking to get married quickly - That does not mean I will make the wrong decision- It does mean to save time you tell me everything about yourself- you should be someone who appreciates efficiency.
I am very open minded, understanding I prefer to be serious and safe than fun- but I do like to have fun-
I am attracted to intelligence and your ability to handle life and how well you handle responsibility - and understand the world. Not some one who experiments with trial and error, is insecure, is uncertain, and is stuck because you have no answers to your own questions- the question of life!
About myself- I have may hidden talents- all ways in search for knowledge and to better myself and understand the world. Would love to show you my world and step into yours too. I have a brilliant sense of humour but its not for sensitive people. I will also mock my self and you. My sense of humour regularly offends people but if you can see through that you will see the genius behind my jokes and be intrigued. when i get bored i try not to go off track,,
Be your self- if you try to act like something you are not- I will know,
I am on good shape with out going to the gym, maybe I will get into better shape for the right girl.
I am the type of guy that will allways be involved in some sort of business, and educating my self will never stop. I hardly smile but if I do it will be special and just for you.
it is a dog eat dog world and I refuse that the world will get the better of me, so I hope we have the same energy and passion to win in life. life is a war
Age is not important to me- only compatibility is so you can me younger or older than me, Not sure this is the right place for me to look- but give it a go-
I am not into lovey dovey day dreaming emotional types.
Be aged 28 - 33 I am 30. Women older than myself welcome. I like maturity
Thanks for reading
lifestyle & appearance
Fair skinned, Athletic Build
Wears a Pagg/Dastar (turban)
The Sikh turban, more appropriately known as a dastar is an article of faith worn by Sikhs.
Lives in London, Greater London / Middlesex, United Kingdom (Citizen)
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