I am mature. My compatibility test is simple and easy- I don't care about anything as long as we can work together as a team or everything. This means transparent communication and bringing each other up to speed on everything and not revealing things when it is too late. I am easy to trust and looking for someone who is the same. Real teamwork/relationship is when you dont let each other down, or if you cant do something you come clean and speak the truth, in the knowledge that we can find a solution to anything making it fun to be in each others company. Sharing the burden of life.
I am seeking someone who loves shopping, art, is a secret geek but doesn't look like one, who I can connect with emotionally, spiritually and more. You might have your bimbo moments but you are really a deep person and don't need to show this by being emotional, but by being genuine. You should also have a non lovey dovey active interest in... more sikhism.
I have seen many couples fight and argue, I have also seen single women observe other couples and judge all men on the going ons of that couple.
It is imperative I find someone who understands reality, and who is not a drifter in her dreams. Someone who can appreciate the company of a man, - not someone who wants to make me the object of her love saved for a child. Hence I am NOT looking for someone who has the notion that you can control any guy no matter how clever they are or how rough they look by using love and lust.
to summarise - I am seeking a mature realist sikh women who does not have the time to dream and wonder but instead takes a open minded approach to life backed up by her intellect, and life experience, not by naivety or experimenting socially. Someone who knows what is right always.
You might be a serious person, you might be a fun person, you might hide who you are, but you should be the above in your personality
What I find attractive in a woman is her intellect and sense of fun. Because doing things in life are a head ache, but we have to do things and be happy. So if you know how to do things and have developed an advanced way of doing them, e.g. Housework, or career work, or planning things, or efficient cooking, socialising, deep interesting opinions, beating me up. Then I know I'm with someone special.
I am not looking for someone who wants a part time relationship, while it might be hard to split time between your family and a guy in your life, I am seeking someone who can keep this inclusive and spend more and more time with your partner.
I actually do not think I am at the right stage to settle down, as I'm ambitious, and from experience i know women don't like an ambitious man as they see this as ego. Although I'm nearly 30, but I should be finding someone, maybe we are in the same situation
But if you are scared, hate men, think men are dogs, sexist, are you are immature with issues, That is not what any guy is looking for.
Happy hunting -
lifestyle & appearance
Fair skinned, Athletic Build
Wears a Pagg/Dastar (turban)
The Sikh turban, more appropriately known as a dastar is an article of faith worn by Sikhs.
Lives in London, Greater London / Middlesex, United Kingdom (Citizen)
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