I love reading, especially books related to spirituality; my favorite being the LOTSW collection by VRRP. I enjoy traveling and photography; and have a passion for conservation.
I normally don’t anger easily, but if I do, God save you. I am a quiet sort of a person, so my mate should be someone who loves to talk, but talk sense of course. I am looking for someone who can challenge me intellectually, someone who loves fun, humor, and lives on the positive side of life. Respect for elders, children, and the poor and needy people is what I value.
It would help a lot, if he is spiritually inclined (not a saint or sadhu but good enough). Someone who is an eternal optimist no matter what roads he has to traverse; someone with whom I and my family can relate to and interact with in a wonderful way. And of course, he may expect all the above qualities from me as well.
However, I feel that in any relationship, its better not to expect too much, because when you expect too much and it’s not fulfilled, it leads to strife. Moreover, I would like someone who lives in the moment- in the present, not someone who dwells on the past or looks too keenly on the future; someone who doesn’t depend on outside circumstances or people to keep and make him happy i. e. a person who is happy with himself.
I know my expectations are too much, and too few who can fulfill them. But, it’s the question of a lifetime and I would not like to settle for anything but the perfect match for me. I do not want The Perfect Guy, but a guy who is a perfect match for me.